The story that Salzberg tells in Loving Kindness about the king who wanted to see if he could meet
someone who could steal something without anyone knowing is so important. How
wise was the man who admitted to the king that he couldn't steal something without anyone knowing because
once can never steal something without someone knowing - one always
knows, in the back of their mind, that they’ve stolen, or lied, or harmed
another person.
This story is one to reflect on, not just because of its message, but because once we become aware of this ourselves, it should inspire us not to steal, not to lie, and not to harm another person. How often do you lie to yourself thinking, "No one will know, so what does it matter if I steal this painting?" Or, "No one will know, so what does it matter if I slash that person's tires?" Or, "No one will know, so why not lie on my resume?"
It's one thing to be in denial about what one has done, but it's another to be aware of it. Once you are aware of your actions it stays with you. So what will you do? Right action would mean make amends with yourself and then with the person you harmed. If you stole, return what you stole. If you lied, tell the truth to the person you lied to. When we get in the practice of making amends we stop the cycle of harm we do to ourselves and others.
